Maybe that’s the point to this post. I guess it’s as good as any other point that I can glean from it. In a healthy relationship, be it partner, friends or other, you should want to protect that other person from harm. I have so many friends that I’m so very attracted to (chatting to one as I write this), but I would never want to do anything to harm their relationship to their spouse. That is why they can trust me, and maybe, just maybe, it’s why they do.
Yes, gars and goyles, this post will be, yet again, about my narcissistic ex-wife (or "nex" as my new support group would refer to her). This time I want to focus on how such significant others strive to isolate their partners.
Maybe I live in an ideal world, but it's the world that I want to live in, and the world that I believe to which we should aspire. I'll never be the same again, but I'll never stop fighting for that ideal.